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Write and complete the following 10 sentence stems:

A. A specific situation when someone assisted me was . . .
B. A specific situation when I assisted someone else was . . .
C. A specific situation when I made assisting someone else more important than my own success and happiness was . . .
D. When someone asks me for assistance, I usually feel . . .
E. When I think of asking someone else for assistance, I usually feel . . .
F. What usually gets in the way of my asking for help is . . .
G. If I often asked other people for assistance, . . .
H. If I joyfully gave assistance to others, . . .
I. If I gratefully accepted assistance from others, . . .
J. One goal that I could use assistance with today is . . .

2. Write about two (or more) choices you could make to create a stronger support system for yourself in college. Consider the choices you could make to overcome the challenges and obstacles to your success. Consider also any resistance you may have about taking steps to create a support system. Dive deep as you explore each choice fully.